Discussion Questions

  • In chapter one you learned about internal consistency, which suggests that theories within the same context should have similarities. In what ways do you see internal consistency with the four theories in this chapter?
  • The premise of dialectics theory suggests that these tensions are irresolvable, which could shatter the image of a “romantic ending.” How do you see this theory as being not only practical but helpful to our perception of relationships amid ongoing tensions?
  • People can be very dismissive of young people in love for the first time (e.g. we use terms like “puppy love”). Use concepts from EVT to explain why we should be gentler with people who are having their hearts broken for the first time.